I promised myself to blog once a month! So here I am with the April update :) last week, I was thinking that I should blog about how God is preparing for what He has for me, for the better person that He has for me. But, to be honest I haven't been letting God prepare me :-/! I know...
Life is hard and so overwhelming! I kept myself busy! Thinking that if I stay busy, then I'll be moving forward! Meaning getting completely over my ex! But that's not the right way to get over someone! Nor is dating around! I haven't done that! I'm just saying =]
Sadly, I stopped making time to talk to God. I was too busy in the morning and then too tired at the end of the day! I stopped building up my relationship with Him! Then one day I saw on Facebook that a friend wrote that we (single people) shouldn't be waiting around for the right one to come to have the life we want to have! And that spoke to me because I have this vision of how I want my family to be and the role I want to have within my home! A family where mom, dad, and the kids pray, read the Bible, serve The Lord, and evangelize! "Souls, souls :))!" And, then I see myself being the best person I can be! Always trying to put others before myself! just being that person that my husband and kids can trust and can come to me for advice! But anyway my friend on Facebook was challenging us to NOT wait to start being that person! That we don't need to wait to be married to be the best of us! That we should set time apart with God now so when that person comes along, there will be no way that this person could take that time between you and God. And, lastly, to also keep our relationship with God as the strongest relationship we could have! But wow it's hard! Takes effort to make that time to be just with God , but once you do! Wow! You are so glad you did! So I challenge you to be that person you want your spouse to fall in love with ;-)! That person you want your kids to love, trust, and love! Act like a wife, mother, women of God now! You don't need your "right one" next to you to be the best you! Start now! :)
